Love is the most complex emotion that I have ever felt in my life. I think about what true love is like and I wonder if I have that with my husband. And I do!! I have this disorder that causes me to think that things are suppose to be easy and I am suppose to just go with the flow in life. That is why I have a wonderful husband to open my eyes! Marriage is difficult and great all at the same time. It is funny when all the women get together no matter what age, marriage has all the same complaints but we are still madly in love with our men!! I bet you all are wondering why I am being so sappy well I watched the Notebook last night. Ok so don't judge because if you really watch that movie and move past the supposed fairy tale love. You all will see that what those two had was true love because it is all about the good, bad and ugly!! Communication in marriage is key because sometimes people are afraid to tell it like it is! I am lucky to have a wonderful husband that is not afraid to tell me when I have lost myself or when I need to get motivated.
The point is, love all that you can and don't assume that things are easy because they will not be. Enjoy the wonderful moments and don't take them for granted. Tell your spouse how you feel and what you expect from the relationship because they cant read your mind!!!
Here are some of the quotes from the movie that makes me realize what true love is all about.
"Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing."
"So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day"
So if you all got the first post please ignore because it was not ready yet!!
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